To become a better salesman, you need to always be making incremental improvements. To become a better salesman, you must not be satisfied with maintaining sales. If you are like me, you want to be constantly improving and closing more sales and deals.
Many years ago, my company was closing my department but they offered to put me in another department on straight commission sales. I was extremely worried about losing my salary and bonus cushion. I viewed it as a safety net but was also confident in my abilities. I was recently married, bought a house, and needed to make sales …fast.
Fast forward a couple years later and I made partner in the firm because of my tremendous and consistent sales. My sales went up like a hockey stick and I was outperforming most people who worked there for decades. There are so many factors that went into my success.
I don’t have 3 keys to success, I have 22 ways to make you a better salesperson. Here is a list of the most important steps on how to become a better salesman. The qualities of a good salesman have proven to work for me.
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1. Stand and Smile When You Call

2. Know Their Birthday
After a few conversations, try to be a little sneaky about finding out their birthday. Say something like, “This weekend I’m going to a birthday party on XYZ Day (holiday depending on the time of the year). I cannot believe how many people I know that were born on XYZ holiday. When’s your birthday?” I always put my clients birthday’s in my personal calendar. Every year I either call, email, text, or send a card …no one else does it! You will stand out. They will likely reply back and you will have an opening to touch base and keep building a relationship. Be a friend.
3. Send Personalized Handwritten Cards

Also, send a thank you card after you make the sale expressing your appreciation. You want them to remember you after the sale for any referrals.
4. Send Creative Corporate Gift Ideas
If your company sends holiday gifts to clients, don’t send the same stuff every other salesperson sends annually. Everyone sends chocolate, popcorn, pretzels, and cured meats. You will never standout and it will be tossed into the office pile of junk food. Being from Chicago, I would negotiate with a popular Chicago deep dish company. I would get a volume discount and spend anywhere from $2,000-$5,000 in pizzas every holiday. I would get a call every year from excited clients saying they would fight over the pizzas in the office. Then during the call, they would likely do some business with me which more than paid for the pizzas. It was a tremendous ROI! Find something unique about you, your company, or geography to send annually. On an extra tip, send the holiday gift either very early in the season or after New Year’s so you and your item get more attention.
5. Best Prospecting Calls are Tuesday Through Thursday

6. Call When you Have the Right Hook
Make the initial call when you completely know your target client and how you can help them. If you cannot add value, then they have no reason to leave their current salesperson or waste their time with you. Many potential sales prospects are lazy and don’t want to change because it will be too much work. Don’t waste time reaching out to people who you can’t help. Make targeted calls. I literally sat on a client’s name and phone number for over three months until I had a financial product I knew they specifically were interested in buying. I called him up saying I was selling “X” financial product and he was blown away because he was actually looking for it. We did our first business transaction on the spot. It was worth the wait. They were a great client for well over a decade later including the biggest order in my career.
7. High-Performing Salespeople are Passionate
I was in the securities industry and my “line” of products varied from day-to-day. I almost always made the sale when I was passionate about the product. I wasn’t selling to make a sale. I was selling because I believed in the product. Make the client believe you are passionate and love what you are doing and selling. It will make you a happy person at work and in your life. Believe in what you are selling. Take pride in yourself and your work.
8. Put Yourself Second and be Honest
Over time, cold calls become clients and client become friends. No matter if it’s a family friend, my best friend, marginal friend, or a client, I never want them to make a bad purchase. There were occasions when a client would make a bad investment through me and I literally felt worse than the client. I took the loss or underperformance of the asset worse than they did. Having a client succeed and make money is a win-win for both of us. There is no “I” in Team!
9. Competition is Healthy
I was a server at a restaurant throughout college. As I told the interviewer at the securities firm, sales are sales, just with a couple more zeros on the product, I’m selling. Every month or quarter, I would “chase” a salesperson who had higher sales than me. Shadow and learn from the best salespeople around you. Learn how your teammates handle a successful sales call. In every restaurant I worked in, I ultimately become the top salesman, consistently. Set attainable targets. Form an effective sales strategy template and path to your next step.
10. Be Communicative and Available
I am shocked at how long it takes some people to reply to a client. I cannot count the number of times I have called people to buy a product or service and they take an unreasonable amount of time to call back. Even if you are busy or traveling, reply back with something so the client knows you received the message and will be getting back. Don’t give them a reason to call someone else and build a relationship elsewhere. There were times I went to my office kitchen to make lunch, came back to see a missed call, and by then, the client made a purchase from someone else. Timing is everything.
11. Learn from Rejection
Yes, sometimes it is them and not you. But, figure out why they said no. Conduct a personal call review. Did you call someone who doesn’t need what you’re selling? Were you too pushy and salesy? Did you not convene the benefits of your product and how it could help them? Did you not ask for the sale at the appropriate time? All rejected sales are minor setbacks but make them a learning experience. Learn how to handle rejection in sales from your successes, mistakes, and failures.
12. Use Sales Prospecting Tools
Nowadays, there is a tool for every part of the sales process. As the old sales success quote goes, “Work smart and not harder.” Here is a short list of sales tools I’d recommend:
- Email customization – Gmass
- Email tracking – BananaTag
- CRM – Hubspot is free
- Calendar – Fantastical
- Notes on your smartphone and PC to sync
The greatest salesman in the world use processes to optimize efficiency. It doesn’t always require technology in every facet of your work, but it helps. Technology will help keep you organized, create a sales strategy template, and know your pipeline and where you stand in your goals.
13. To-Do List on Sticky Notes

14. Ask for Referrals in Sales
According to Texas Tech, a study found that 83% of consumers are willing to refer a friend after a positive sales experience, but only 29% do it. Every time I was in a client’s office, I would ask them if I was missing anyone local or in their industry that would be interested in my product. All your clients go to the same outings and conferences. They all know each other. I would literally list all the local guys I was visiting and ask them who I’m missing.
As them for help. It will make them feel important. When I provided the list of my current clients and prospects, they felt obligated to fill in the holes. Ask if I could use their name when you cold-called their referral. If not, for some reason, I would still cold call and name drop some of the other local guys I last visited. It can’t hurt. You look credible if an associate or competitor of theirs welcomed me in their office.
15. Know your Product and Create a FAQ
Become an expert about your product. Use the product. When I worked in restaurants, I always ate the specials. If I like it, I could easily describe it and sell it on my excitement. On the other hand, I was overly honest and told customers what was just okay. I never want to sell something that’s just okay. They won’t be happy, they won’t tip me, and I won’t get repeat customers. In almost all cases, they expressed respect for me because no server ever tells them what to avoid on the menu. My wife knows it drives me crazy when a server tells me “everything is good on the menu.”
Tell customers you are proud to use it and be associated with it. No matter what I’ve sold, there are always the same common questions. It could be a few common questions or it could be several pages depending on the complexity of your product. Know the questions and know the answers. Better yet, create a frequently asked questions (FAQ) document for new customers. I have known some salespeople to provide it ahead of the first meeting so their first call goes into a deeper dive of the product or service. It can make the sales process go smoother and faster. Use the FAQ to cover the common sales objections and rebuttals. It may also weed out prospects and save you both time. There are also some salespeople who provide it after their initial meeting. It will depend on your specific product.
16. Identify Customer Pain Points and Needs
Do research before your first contact. As they say, “You only have once to make a first impression.” You need to know why they need your product or service. Does your product offer more than a competitor? Will your product make them more efficient? Will your product save them money in the long-run? They are using a similar competitors product or service but yours is cheaper? Can you provide better customer service or higher satisfaction than a competitor? Why should they pick up the phone when you call and buy from you? If you can’t think of a good reason, then don’t call them or find something that will benefit your prospect.
17. You Work for Yourself

18. Be Appropriately Dressed When you Meet Clients

19. Prepare for Small Talk Topics
Don’t be the typical person who speaks about “the weather” during downtime with your client. Don’t wing your conversations. If you know they like sports, do some research and have them talk about their team. If they have a family, ask about their kids and family trips planned. Personalize the conversation so you can find a common bond between you and your client. The best salespeople focus on evaluating clients personalities and making adjustments along the way. Come prepared with small talk ideas.
20. Everyone is Special
Don’t ever dismiss or ignore any touchpoint within your customer’s firm. Always be polite to the admin because they are usually the first line of defense between you and your prospect. Never discount a subordinate who works under your potential buyer. More times than not, when your client leaves the firm, is on vacation, or retires, that person is the next in command either temporarily or permanently. They will always remember who was nice to them when they were climbing the ladder and number two, and who treated them like garbage. People change positions or move on all the time. Very few companies and roles are static.
21. Always Under Promise Over Deliver
It is common in every industry for salespeople to overpromise and under deliver. Don’t overstate the value of a service or product. Heck, it almost seems cultural nowadays. Tesla has been promising X amount of cars produced for years and rarely ever reaches their goal. The media points it out all the time and doesn’t believe Elon Musk. Clients are not stupid. They know reasonable expectations vs getting a hyped up pitch of promises. Do what you say you’re going to do and build in a cushion or set expectations from the beginning. There are always setbacks, so let your client know immediately and how you plan to fix it. Their business is likely revolving and scheduled based on your delivery dates. It’s a domino effect. You will be much more respected in the end for honesty.
22. Always Learn and Grow
While I was a server in the late 1990s, I was always going to the library and checking out cassette tapes how to become a better salesman. Not only did I want to learn about sales, but I listen to books about business, biographies about my industry, and self-help books. I spent a couple hours in the car every day and instead of listening to the same songs over and over, I was growing as a person. Nowadays, there no excuses with podcasts, audiobooks, and smartphones. Here are a few suggestions:
- Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
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Your training in sales or as a person should never end. Read industry magazine and article; stay current on trends. Learning is an ongoing process throughout life.
In Sum
Why do you want to become a better salesman? What motivates you? Are you motivated by money? Do you get a high when you close a sale? Do you like the hunt and super competitive with yourself and coworkers? Are you motivated to improve someone else’s life when they purchase your product? Does your product make the world a better place?
It doesn’t matter if you are an introvert or an extrovert. Though, you need to be flexible and be able to switch between introvert and extrovert sales behavior.
My former employer was always happy to hear when a salesperson was buying a house or getting married. He knew that salesperson needed to be a better salesman to support their dreams.
How will you become a better salesman? Please share your thoughts below.
Sources:
https://www.outboundengine.com/blog/5-reasons-past-clients-arent-sending-referrals/




